it is an interesting day. what turns to be a catch up with a good friend turns out to be the biggest teaching i will ever need. first, we realize we match in terms of personality. so the understanding is there. and he is logic as 1+1=2 and no emotional and feeling should be involved in anything, no matter what. as conversation rolls on, it turns out he felt that he is stagnant at his current position. and he seem to be seeking advice from me.
i started asking what went wrong and how is handling it in terms of career and relationship. i think this is one of the best advice i have ever given. i tell him, be very logical and be you in your career. in relationship, be the opposite. don't be you. be the person who wants to make the relationship to work even though you apologize for things that you do not do wrong. there is no right and wrong in relationship. it is just a relationship that requires mutual understanding and compromise. be the bigger person. listen to me once.
he suddenly got enlightened. for all the things that have been his stumbling block suddenly becomes clear. good. i ask him, just do it. don't think.
i started asking what went wrong and how is handling it in terms of career and relationship. i think this is one of the best advice i have ever given. i tell him, be very logical and be you in your career. in relationship, be the opposite. don't be you. be the person who wants to make the relationship to work even though you apologize for things that you do not do wrong. there is no right and wrong in relationship. it is just a relationship that requires mutual understanding and compromise. be the bigger person. listen to me once.
he suddenly got enlightened. for all the things that have been his stumbling block suddenly becomes clear. good. i ask him, just do it. don't think.
blogger decides it's time to act, not to react. time to move on, not self degrade.
