reacher and settler

in a show today, i came to know about these two words. they are used for people in a relationship. according to the friend, a reacher is for someone in the relationship reaches for someone above his/her level while the settler settles for someone less.

hmmm... interesting. now it makes sense. so, what makes you a settler or reacher? it depends on your qualities i guess. but i think appearance and personality affect lots. if i start having this thought in my head, i am scared one day i might ask my friend. better ditch this thought from my head. while it is true that such thing exist, as long as they are happy, does it really matter who is the settler or reacher?

and usually the settler will not get jealous if the opposite sex tries to woo the partner because the settler is in the mind that reacher will not leave the settler because the settler is the best person the reacher will ever get. haha. okay, time to get to revision.